A Lesson

I found out a friend of mine passed away several weeks ago.  I wasn’t shocked because we had been expecting this news for some time.  He had been in ill health for a long time.   

It was the next morning after I awakened that I began to go through the grieving process for him.  Then, because I am a channel and I can talk to the dead I said to my guides, “Why didn’t somebody let me know that he had passed?  What kind of psychic am I that I can only talk to dead people after I get the news they have died?  Why didn’t you tell me?”  My friend replied, “What?  Now you’re mad because I died?”  I calmed down, smiled and said, “No, of course not.  I’m sorry.”  A few seconds passed and then one of the guides said, “To what purpose?  What were you planning to do?  Buy flowers?  Measure him for a casket?  What would it look like to notify someone they were going to pass in three days’ time?  It is not done.”